When it comes to romantic relationships, nearly everyone has had a first love, a first rejection, and many have gone through numerous relationships until they found "The One". Well, on Saturday September 3rd I was adding some of the characteristics I was looking for in a romantic relationship to a list I have been working on for some time. As you know, if we have worked together, or if you have attended one of my seminars, that one of the keys of attracting our desires is to be specific. Well, I had typed out one and a quarter pages of what I truly wanted in a romantic partner. Now, keep in mind I had been working on this for some time, but it was Saturday when after adding a few more items, I felt complete with it. I knew on that Saturday that this person and I would be together. If you would like to see a part of the list read below... "What I have in a spiritual, romantic, and loving relationship: I am in an inspiring, spiritual, romantic, loving, passionate and co-creative relationship with a woman who is between 5 foot 2 and 5 foot 6, who is beautiful, intelligent, elegant, romantic, has a great sense of humor, is playful with me and who I am playful with, who is inspired by what she does as a career and who is inspired by what I do and who I am inspired by, who is honest, loyal, caring, kind, lovely, warm, who is healthy, is quick witted, dresses well, who is herself around me and who I am myself with, who connects with my family well and whose family I connect with well. She is totally my equal and my match and we really understand each other. She is between 28 and 34 and enjoys Sade, Yanni, jazz, 80's music, classical, world music, Latin, Indian, Middle Eastern and Celtic music. She and I have inspiring conversations and we have a beautiful spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical connection. She loves conversations about spirituality. She is very intuitive, conscious and actively aware in her connection with the universe. She is physically fit. She is nurturing, creative and we love each other unconditionally and in all ways." I have got to say, I am very proud of this list, but I can't take credit for all of the page and a quarter. At times over the past several months I would see a romantic comedy and hear an incredible description of a romantic partner that I would then include in my list because it was exactly what I was wanting... Such as in the movie What Women Want with Mel Gibson... his character says about Helen Hunt... she dazzled me... and when I heard this I felt this is what I would love so I included it. Once I closed the document I had complete certainty that she and I would be together. It was a done deal so to speak! The words that came through me when I completed the list were... "It is done. And so it is!" Well, about 12 hours later on Sunday the 4th, I was on my way to meet with a friend who invited me to go out with her and some of her friends. Along the way, as I was turning a corner, the universe spoke to me and I heard clearly... "Your life is going to change forever today!" Now, I didn't quite know what this meant and hadn't put two and two together about what I had just finished writing the day before. None-the-less, I was overwhelmed by the feeling and just enjoyed it. And then, there she was. The friend of mine came along with two people. And one of them has since turned out to be the exact woman I described in my list the night before... to a tee! She is one of the most remarkable and loving people I have met and just radiates this incredible glow. Her name is Ellen Goldhar. A wild part about this is that she and I do the same work... she is a coach, author, facilitator, and speaker. She and I even discuss similar ideas and teach the same concepts. We are each others' perfect match and it is truly wonderful! She is everything I wrote down on that list and more! Here is more of the list... "We know that we are for each other this life and have absolute certainty in that knowing. She loves learning languages and to travel. We just make each other laugh and laugh and at other times can share silence in the moment still in intimate communion. Her friends and mine are of like mind and we all get along like we've been friends for years. She and I complement each other and reflect a deeper sense of who we are with each other. She and I share a passion for seeing movies that are actions, comedies, romantic comedies, adventures, and science fictions. She is cultured and really respects all cultures and ethnic backgrounds, world religions and genders." When I had completed that list of desires on the Saturday, I was clear with my intent... that I didn't want to date 20 women to find this one. I stated, "she will be the next woman I am with... the first one beginning now!" ... and so it was! But there is much more to this story... I have a fairly small family and have always wanted to experience a large one... and a large family she has... in fact I met about 1/5th of them last week and we just had an inspiring and lovely time. I felt like I was experiencing My Big Fat Greek Wedding and it was AWESOME! On top of that, she and I are now co-creating seminars and courses on relationships for both singles and for those who have partners. She and I are beginning to combine our seminars into one and we have had very little sleep over the past 11 days simply because our conversations go for hours and we co-create so much inspiration and are inspired by each others' inspirations that we are just in this incredible flow. My next book may be called How Our Lives Can Change in 12 Hours...!:) Now, I am not just sharing this with you so that you can rejoice for me... I am sharing this with you because if Ellen and I can create/attract/manifest each other... YOU CAN TOO!!!!!! We are unlimited Beings free from boundaries and restrictions. We can and do create whatever we desire, and synchronisticly, whatever you truly desire, has already been manifested and is just waiting for you to tune into it, just like Ellen and me. This also means that these principles and this process can be applied to all areas of your life, not just with relationships, but with wealth, health, and social connections. In order for Ellen and I to have met, though, several things had to be in place. I was not ready to meet her three months ago just as she was not ready three months ago either. Over the past three months I have practiced the keys that I teach and journalled quite a bit; releasing blocks and barriers that I believed helped me to reach this point. Core Journaling is a great way to connect with your spirit, to receive clarity on who you really are and what you are here to accomplish. The results that often come from Core Journaling include an influx of abundance, improved health, peace of mind, and of course, the attraction of a life partner. So now you know about the most incredible synchronicity I have experienced and hopefully realize that Ellen and I are simply a reflection for you, that you too can manifest whatever your hearts desire! There will be much more to come with this so stay tuned for future editions of Be-Inspired to hear about how this unfolds. You have attracted this wonderful story as a mirror for you and I am happy that I can share it with you. Until next time, may you Be-Inspired. |
