Online dating can be a very efficient way of meeting new, sexy and interesting women. But if you don't know the right things to do when communicating with women on dating sites, it can get very difficult to meet the kind of women you want. I'm going to outline a few tips here to ensure that you succeed and get a steady stream of women wanting to meet you. Your screen name is your "first impression" in meeting women online. When making up your screen name to register with an online dating service, spend as much time as you need to come up with a good screen name. Your screen name is, just like your photo, one of the most important factors that will determine your success with women online. It is very important when writing your profile to be a little bit cocky but playful when describing yourself. You see, women are drawn to very confident (but not arrogant) men. This will INSTANTLY set you apart from all the other "clueless" men out there trying to meet women online. For example, instead of saying "I am a 24 year old guy. I love mountain climbing, reading books and clubbing in my spare time. My favourite food is lamb chops", e.t.c. you should say something like this instead: "Why does everybody keep asking me how old I am? Bunny boiling stalkers everywhere I go! But if you're not a stalker and you're good looking, then I definitely WANT to hear from you. I'm 24 years old. (sshhhh! Don't tell anyone!) I hate hobbies, why does everyone have to have hobbies? But having said that, I once took a salsa dancing class, it was in Southern Spain, glorious sunshine, fine surroundings and impressive dance hall. The only problem was I couldn't understand a damn thing the teacher was saying. I'd signed up where it said 'Spanish Students Only.' If you can do the salsa, I want another teacher, and please speak English too. A nice looking girl, not a stalker, can do the salsa, speaks English, Ohhh, absolute heaven!!" Do you see the difference? Which profile do you think looks more interesting and is more likely to get a response from a lot of women online? You guessed it, "Mr Salsa". Now, you may think that by "cutting out" the girls who don't dance the salsa, I'm limiting my response rate, but you'd be surprised at what this kind of pre-qualifying or selectiveness does for my success rate with women online. Now, here's a tip on how to get a girl to have "steamy cyber sex" which might even sometimes lead to full sex, if you play your cards right with her. As you're chatting with a woman, (and this works best if you're discussing a fun topic like physical hobbies or games in a playful way), you ask her if she's ever had an online "massage." Whatever her answer, you can then begin to describe why YOUR massages are the best and what you would do to her if you were there massaging her. Now, it is extremely important to NOT get too graphic with your language and description too soon after you start the "massage" talk. Let it just be purely about massaging and wait for HER to be the one to escalate the flirting into a direction where you can get more sexual. Remember, you don't want her to think you're some freaky pervert. You're trying to demonstrate CLASS, but in a way that will get you fantastic results with women online. |
