This week I want to talk about focus and mental concentration when it comes to picking up single women. And for addressing this issue I will use bars and nightclubs for an example. Ok, you're all ready to go to a local bar or nightclub and meet some single women. When you get there, focus all of your attention on meeting and picking up a woman. Think of nothing else and tell yourself over and over that you're not leaving the place without picking up a woman or at least getting a phone number. To give you an idea of how I want you to focus on meeting single women think of it this way: Have you ever watched a tennis match? Well, like a lot of other sports, it takes a lot of focus and mental concentration. You must focus on where the ball is at all times. If you lose your concentration even for a split second the ball can fly past you and cause you to lose points. And so it goes when you're out looking for women to meet. You must be completely focused on your goal of meeting someone that night. Don't let your guard down, don't get distracted, don't stand around with your thumb up your ass waiting for something to happen, and just go for it when you see a woman that you are attracted to. Make your moves and take advantage of every single opportunity you see to meet a woman. Keep your eyes roving like radar to lock in on another woman's eyes who shows interest in you. If you lock eyes and she gives you a smile, that's your cue to approach her immediately and don't even give it a second thought to stall or ponder. |
